Now that I have your attention I would like to ask a few questions to the ones who visit this site.( you do not have to answer here but do give yourself an answer)
1, Why am I in a kin and in this kin?
2. What do I expect from the kin?
3. What am I doing for the kin?
4. Is the kin benefiting from me being a member?
5. Do I really care about the kin?
Something to think about